I.LOVE.YOU

Being in love and loved is a great feeling; it’s like on a cloud 9 that you don't really want to end. We all have the capability to feel that love and enjoy it to the fullest, but the problem is sometimes we are so much intertwined to the word "love" and we don't mind the true essence of the relationship of yours with your partner. And what is/are the real essence of relationships anyway? Is it about on how much laughter that you shared? or on how you really know each other that well? or on how many miles did you travel together?or on how many foods you tried? or how many kisses and hugs you shared? Or how many i love you's you've exchanged?

Sometimes, a relationship became stronger because of how sweet our partners say i love you to us or how often we say i love you to them. Some believes that saying i love you frequently shows that we still loved them and the feeling are still mutual. What's ironic is that at some point we tend to say i love you to our partner just to let them feel that you love them even if its not.

I love you is a simple word but has complex meaning. It can bring sadness or happiness depending on how you convey it or why you will utter these words. Usually, we say i love you to those people who are truly close to your heart, but on the same hand, we say i love you to someone just to let him feel that your relationship with him is secured. What's worst with this is that your partner will believe and live in a lie and pretending. It’s like your relationship with your partner is like a role play. All the things that you say is scripted and you'll say it perfectly with correct emotions and actions for the sake of the play.

However, when we're going to understand it deeply, the word i love you plays a great role in our relationship with our partner. Because by this word, they will feel that we really love them. On the same hand, there are people who typically say i love you to their partner but still they can show it through their actions. They are the ones who are touchy or maybe they greatly believe in the saying actions speak louder than voice. They usually surprise you with gift, cook simple but full of love dishes, or give you a hug and kiss you a lot.

We all have different ways of showing how we love our family, friends and partners. remember that God made us unique from each other so we differ from so many things. what matters the most is that we are loved and we know how to love.