When we
are in grade school, it is very easy to describe a Filipino because when we were
just starting learning things, our parents are kept on saying things that we
must do as a Filipino. One of the best example of it was using "po and
opo" whenever we talk with the elders. Also "pagmamano" to them
and give our seats when they are standing on a bus or in any public vehicles or
places. Filipinos are well known with these attitudes or cultures because it was a sign of high
respect to the elders. Unfortunately, nowadays Filipino youth or even the children seem to forget how to show respect to the elders. They forget to use
po and opo whenever they talk with them, and magmano whenever they see them.
And worst, they just let elders to stand on a bus even if they knew that these
elders are easy to get tired and cant balance themselves.
Last
August 1, of the same year, on my way home, I rode a bus for me to get home.
The bus was totally full and most of the passengers were patiently standing
just to get home because that's already rush hour and its very hard to see an
empty vehicle to ride on. Going back to my story, I was standing near the door
and a few seconds later, someone stood up and gave his seat to me. That made me
really smile and say to myself, "Meron padin pala". A few minutes
more an old woman came up carrying her bundles of plastics. She walked until
she reached the middle part of the bus. Unexpectedly, one of the passengers
stood up and gave his seat to the old woman.
(What a
wonderful scene to see.)
Truly,
respect is such an attitude that a person must have. Because it is important
and necessary. We all have the rights to be respected and we have the
obligations to do this to others also. As we show respect to other people
most specially to the elders, they will
gain more self confidence and surely they will respect us as well.
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